Monday, June 07, 2004

Are beautiful girls lacking the confidence?

Read an article in the web tonite,
And got thoughts about it...

It was about good-looking guys complaining about their looks :)
I somehow found myself in there :)

Then I thought about some ladies I met, who would range very high in the beauty scale, and their behavior...
I mentioned many times that I saw – sometimes it was me – a good-looking guy not approaching a babe...
But more than that I have seen a good-looking girl, freaking out this way or that on the approach of a handsome...

Then I thought about the stories,

It seems that most of the babes do have a low confidence problem.. – The problem with men is not low confidence, it is putting the girl on a pedestal... Maybe the same thing...

Men, call most of these girls bitches...
The girls bitch on two occasions,

One is the usual thing:
Some guy she thinks ranger lower than her approaches..
She bitches to filter him out...
And that would maybe make up all approaches except the exceptions...

The other is what happens to handsomest..:
“Why?”

- She is not used to a handsome chatting with her
- Intimidated by his comfortable stand
- Intimidated by his self confidence
- Afraid of his “I do not give a shit” attitude
As these are usually what she feels with boys of lesser lives talking to her, and she knows the power she has had in those situations, now she sees the guy in front of her having that...

Another why,
- Why is he talking to me?
- Even though she knows she is beautiful, she is insecure against a guy, good looking, witty, intelligent, and who knows that if he would lower his standards, he would get laid in a minute... For the girls, getting laid is not problem, as it is a problem for men even with lowered standards...
- This guy, who can fuck any girl in the bar – This way of thinking is actually a good show of how easy women are against guys who know the game..., and this way of thinking is also the reason why the guys who know the game get more fierce shot downs than the usuals – is talking to her.. He will fuck her and dump her.. Self esteem problem again. Not believing in herself to be able to hold that one...

The point I am trying to make is,
The babe has been put on a pedestal..
Not by her, but by others...
When talking to these others,
She is the queen, and she knows it...

Then, when a guy comes...
Not caring, confident, etc..
She knows she is not there anymore...
This can shatter her ego.. her self worth...
She is used to be chased... Not to be in the darkness of the unknown..
I could not finish this text when I started it, and now, cannot find the end of the rope..

When I read about the text, I decided to put some notes to the end, because I am not able to continue it..

- The hatred of some women over good looking men is a good indication that: A beautiful girl has been given power by men... And possibly she abuses it. Expects the good looking hunk to abuse that power also.
- Even the ones men call babes have self esteem problems when dealing with someone not blinded by her. True for men also. Though men have been thought that looks do not matter for women.. One of the biggest lies... – Looks do not matter for women if the guy has no idea about it... God Beware from the guy who knows it and who plays it..., also god help this guy too... the object of desire is more likely to be the object of hatred...
- The hatred of some women over good looking men is a good indication that: How easy actually women fall for these guys but stop themselves... Not wanting to be a slut, not wanting to be a one night fuck, not wanting to loose control, wanting to play being difficult, etc....
- etc. etc.

Note to myself:

Next time you start a text, finish it...

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