A friend: Finnish guys are abusive

Came home, after hearing the words from a friend,
“Wow, Finnish guys are abusive”

I was about to write another “fuck you” text, but then an evening Turkish coffee opened my eyes..

Yes it’s true, you get to see men, good looking, ugly etc, dancing with a woman, the woman trying every possible move, and the guy not even paying attention..
The girl talking to the guy, guy going, “Shut up”, and talking to his friends, the girl, in love after this…

First date rape.
A man giving more importance to beer than the woman.. Getting praise for it..
A man giving more importance to getting drunk, than the woman, getting laid for it..
Guys treating women as if the don’t exist..
Guys treating women as they are the lowliest whores…
Guys treating women like they are some dogs in heat…
Guys treating women like burning pussy in need of dick – not totally untrue..

Yes, that is abusive…
In our southerner eyes…
It is a fucking crime…
In South Europe you could get killed for that.

But this is Finland…,
This is called paying respect to the woman…

What is abusive actually is not treating the woman like shit.
IT IS TREATING THE WOMAN LIKE A WOMAN…
And then, leaving her lying on bed, without writing down your phone number…
Crime, because that was the unknown, in a society where women take pride in being like men.
The feeling that she is a woman, she was hunted, served, pleasured, is something special, enhancing the pain, upon the leave of the man,
Unlike being treated like shit all the way…

Then, I am talking about the night scene…
And what they say is, the bad comes out at nite…
(Its pitch dark here after four nowadays.. no comment)

The guys, I do not consider abusive anymore....
They are just doing what they gotta do… What they were tought by women...
You don’t treat her like shit, you don’t get laid…
Sadly, this is true for the majority of the night marketplace…

In the end, remembered the saying,
To know the women of a country, look at their men.
Women educate their men, men just follow the rules.

So,
Simply, the rule is,
The woman wants you, only to prove herself, she can exist in your world, whatever hell that may be…

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If you ever get the chance, go to one of the international parties in Kiva, or Europe.

Look at the foreigners flirting…
Look at the guy talking, the girl talking, they both laughing..
Look at the proximity,
Look at the communication they have…

Then,
Go to a Finnish place like Panama or Ilves, and observe the flirts…
You will see what I mean.

Simply,

Different rules…